Posted Nov 22 2010, 8:37 pm

A viewpoint about soul mates

by Barrie Dolnick

We’ve all heard stories about people who lock eyes across a crowded room and know for sure they’ll marry each other. They are soul mates, right? Could be. But that’s not the only way you meet them, and it’s certainly not always instant love. Toss your preconceived notions about soul mates and learn what the experts say. It may surprise you.

Soul mates are matches made in heaven. According to Yale Chaplain Rabbi James Ponet, traditional (Judeo-Christian) ideas about soul mates are summed up in this 2nd Century story:

A wealthy Roman matron says to a rabbinic sage, “Since your Creator God made the universe in seven days, what’s he been doing since?” The Sage replied, “He’s been making couples.” The Roman woman says, “I can do that!” She proceeds to command one hundred slaves to be coupled off and sends them to a great dwelling. After one night, the place is in shambles; the couples have fought and degenerated into chaos. In defeat and shame, she goes back to the Sage and says, “Oh, that’s no minor thing that your God does.”

And that’s why it is common to believe that marriages are made in heaven. In Hebrew the word is B’shert — roughly translated as “beloved” or “The One.” This is where the basic idea of soul mates originates.



2 responses to “SOUL MATES”

  1. asphalt 8 says:

    Kelly – sorry, but I couldn't find an E-mail address for you – could I reprint your list of questions on my blog? I'm writing up a post about recording our children's lives and thought this was a great (this is where I'd use it)

  2. Kjempefint, likte utrolig godt den puten med blomsten på; var den også fra Skeidar? Lekker i lilla, og veldig lunt og koselig! En innertier! Klem

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